I will begin the story of my family with an introduction to myself.
During the latter years of the Baby Boomers, I was born into a family of English migrants in New South Wales, Australia. My three elder sisters were all verging on adulthood when I was born and by the time I had reached the age of my earliest memories, they all had boyfriends and were preparing for marriage.
The three men my sisters married are as much a part of my childhood family as my sisters, I can’t remember a time when they weren’t in my life.
And so it came to pass that I spent most of my childhood years as virtually an only child, surrounded by a family of eight adults. Looking back, I feel that I enjoyed an idyllic childhood.
We lived in the Blue Mountains, about fifty miles west of Sydney in what was then a remote area, with a gravel road leading to our home. There were no children to play with in the street, so with the isolation and living with a family who all spoke with strong English accents, I grew up speaking with a broad northern England accent myself. My mother preferred to call me a ‘Pozzie’ – a cross between a Pommy and an Aussie.
Once my three sisters were all married and with families of their own to care for, Dad and Mum decided the three of us would move to a warmer climate, so our house was sold, along with all of our furniture, and we headed north in search of a warmer climate.
For Mum and Dad to uproot the three of us and move north must have been the simplest of ideas – they barely batted an eyelid and off we went. I can imagine after transporting themselves and their three young daughters by ship to the other side of the world, a move north, taking them a mere six-hundred-and-fifty miles would seem easy.
For me though, it wasn’t easy. I struggled to come to terms with leaving my sisters, brothers and their children, only accepting the idea of moving because I had to. It helped though to know we would make regular trips back to the Blue Mountains.
At age nineteen I met the man who became my husband and father of our four children. Allan was born and raised in a small town in far northern New South Wales. After finishing school, he had accepted a position in Sydney with Telecom Australia, so I moved to Sydney to be with him.
We were married at St. Philip Neri Church in Northbridge, Sydney, in 1979 and have two sons and two daughters.
We spent the first fifteen years of our marriage in Sydney, the city I still call home. In 1992 however, and seven months pregnant with my third child, I made the same move I had made many years earlier with my parents – we moved back north.
There was a purpose for the move, however traumatic it seemed at the time. My mother had taken seriously ill and I didn’t know how much longer I would have her.
By August 1993 my mother was gone and over the next five years, it gave me the opportunity to really get to know my Dad. (Mum always said that every cloud has a silver lining!) Dad and I became very close during the years he lived alone and it hit me incredibly hard when one day, without a word of warning, he had joined my mother. ‘Dead’ is such a permanent word so I will not refer to any of my family in that way. They are no longer with me in physical form, but they are still with me.
Starting this website has been a dream of mine for many years now. It has taken a while to get my head around the planning and layout and what I wish to achieve, so I sincerely hope that eventually, many people will have the opportunity to be enlightened on aspects of their own branch of the family by visiting this website.
As new relatives are added to the site and I build on the information I have already found, it is my hope that you will find here more than just the branches of a tree, with names, dates and places. For as many relatives as possible, I will also include photos, personal stories and any information I have about their lives.

I’m sure I will continue to add to this site for many years, and it will never reach a stage of completion, as my search for ancestors continues.
Hi Joanne
It was lovely to hear all your family history. I started to chart my family tree before I retired but now I don’t seem to have the time. Also I am not very good on the internet! I am visiting Mum on Thursday so have printed out your website so far. She will be thrilled when I read it out to her. I will email you when I get back home and let you know what she said. She did want to write to you but her eyesite isn’t very good now.
Love Jennifer
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Hello Jennifer!
I’m so pleased that I had this site up and running before you see your Mum. I will be waiting anxiously to hear what she thinks!! Tell her I love her lots and will be writing a page about her also, when I get to Mum’s family. Maybe you could ask her if there are any memories she would like me to add, about the Mansfields and Stathams.
If you would like help with your family tree, maybe I could help. Your maternal side of the family will be covered here and if you email me as many details as you can about your Dad’s side of the family I can do some research for you.
It is so lovely to hear from you.
Jo. xxx
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Joanne U are amazing with your thoughts and the interest U create. As I’ve said before your time management in creating your “Bloggs / web sites” with such interest is brilliant.
Personally I would have liked to see a paragraph relating to where U moved North to, and the reasons for u returning South, obviously U left home for the big City.
Love Keth
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Oh Keith, they are very good points you made, where I’ve missed out some information! We moved north to Murwillumbah, NSW, and I moved back down to Sydney to be with Allan after I met him. I’ll add in a paragraph of two in the appropriate places.
Thank you so much for the compliments and the ideas. π
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Your new family history site looks wonderful, Joanne! I love the sepia tones and the pictures you included. Looking forward to “climbing” your tree with you as you keep adding new stories. Who knows? We may prove to be related some day as we both have roots in England. π
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Thank you Barbara! Your approval means a lot to me, as you know you gave me so many ideas with your family history site, which is amazing! http://rodgersgen.wordpress.com
Wouldn’t that be fantastic if we were related?? I love discovering cousins that I didn’t know I had. I’ve met so many people, who are now close friends, through my research. π
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Hi Jo,
I have a few photos of William Jones, nephew of Harriet Rubery and Richard Thompson. William is a gt-grandfather of mine. I can also give you addresses where he lived and a photo of his grave too if you like.
Any help you need with this stem of your tree please let me know and I’ll do all I can.
Good luck with your project!
Mike x
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Mike, I can’t wait to get to the Rubery side of my family. I don’t know if you remember a few years ago when I discovered Harriet and I was so excited that I emailed you! The story of Richard and Harriet will be added here all in good time.
Any photos you have would be greatly appreciated, and if you have any stories you could write out for me to include here, that would be even better! Thank you for your offer to help. I’m actually stuck on finding out some information about a Thompson and I was hoping you might be able to find it for me in church records in Manchester. I’ll email you the details I have and my questions.
Thank you for dropping by. π
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Joanne,
I feel like you have missed a sister, I share all those memories with you, as if it was my own family.
Liz.
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Oh my Dearest Friend in the World, you deserve inclusion here, as we have been like sisters over the years, haven’t we? We’ve been through everything together, for so long now. I value your friendship dearly and I hope you realise that. xxx
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You’ve done really well!!!! But OMG adam’s eyes are huge!!! hehe
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Thank you Hayley. I’m glad you like this site, because one day you can show it to your grandchildren!!
Yes, Adam’s eyes are still huge too. He’s beautiful, just as all four of you are. π
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Hi Jo
Thank you for sharing your wonderful memories. I’m tracing the Mottershead family for my niece. Her grandfather was Edmund Mottershead born 1887 in Beswick. He married Beatrice Parkhouse in 1909 in Lancashire. Edmund migrated to Australia in 1913. Beatrice came out the following year. Edmund was a brother of Albert and of course, Samuel. I’ve been stumbling around on the Ancestry website and it seems Edmund’s parents were Edmund Mottershead 1855-1950 and Alice Hassell 1863-1910. Then Edmund Mottershead 1823-1870 & Alice Shimwell 1825-1903. Then I believe it was James Mottershead and Elizabeth of Macclesfield. Have you done much research on the early Mottershead’s?
Best wishes,
Pam
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Yes Pam, they are all my family and I will be adding each of them to this website in due course! Thank you for dropping by and leaving a comment. π
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